Michelle-lanious Thoughts
Musings of a Malaysian Trans-female geek :)
Monday, July 16, 2012
Definitions of Transgender Term
The Transgendered Community is actually a very wide group of people. Much as the Earth is made up of radically different continents, so too the Transgender Community has many types within it. Whilst labels aren't exact and can have annoying stereotypes attached to them, they can be useful in helping you understand the type of person you are and from there, the type of support, lifestyle and facilities available for you. So let's take a look at some of the categories people talk about shall we?
Before I start, I best say that these aren't Oxford English Dictionary definitions of Transgender Groups. To some a word may connotate more or less and so these are the definitions I use in lieu of the world actually having any decent ones!
Transgendered or TG
- Dead simple, anyone involved in activities which cross normal accepted social boundaries of gender behavior can be said to be transgendered or crossing gender boundaries. That could be as clear and radical as physically altering one's body with anything from clothing and make up to surgery and hormones. Or it could be as subtle and hidden as the way you think.
The term transgender is also used occassionally to refer to someone who lives as the opposite of their birth sex without surgery, but that seems to be less and less common these days.
All other groups listed below are classed as Transgendered. For example, I'm transexual so I'm a type of transgendered person. My friend Debs is a Drag Queen, so Debs is also Transgendered. However in reverse, being a transgendered person doesn't make you all of the categories within it - Debs definitely is not a transexual and I'm not a Drag Queen. Transgendered is just the umbrella covering all.
As a rough gauge, 80% of the transgender community is physically male, 20% female from birth. 82% of the Transgender Community is heterosexual, 15% bisexual and the rest homosexual - that is sexual orientation within the transgender community is roughly the same as that anywhere else. 90% of the community only ever expresses itself within their own home. I guess that explains why I get those cheeky looks when I'm buying shaving foam at the supermarket whilst wearing my best Dior!
Transexual (transsexual) or TS
- To be Transexual means that you fundamentally view yourself as being of the opposite sex to your physical body. You could have a male body with a female mind, this is called Male to Female Transexual (often abbreviated MtF or MtoF). There is also the reverse, a person born with a female body and a male mind. This is Female to Male or FtoM. In fact this condition affects not only Humans but animals too. Although it's exact causes are yet to be conclusively understood, current medical knowledge classes Transexualism as a birth defect. A part of the individuals brain which deals with gender is formed as that of the opposite sex to the physical body. Fortunately this condition is relatively rare and whilst transexualism certainly isn't the norm, it is a natural phenomena and definitely isn't invented or "chosen".
You may also hear the terms pre-op and post-op Transexual. This is because some transexuals find living with their condition so difficult they take hormones and undergo surgery (SRS or Sex Reassignment Surgery or GRS Gender Reassignment Surgery) to make their body match their mind. This process is called transitioning. Whilst current medical science only offers a sex change as a cure to transexualism, the degree to which a person has mastery of their own mental states often has a bearing on whether a sex change operation is essential. Some will get depressed or view their life as a lie if they are forced to live in the gender role of their physical body and in extreme cases sex change can be the difference between life and death. However it would be wrong to say that the goal of all transexuals is to transition to one gender. There are many more who leave their bodies unaltered and view their unique blend of female outlook with masculine strength and presence as an advantage. Certainly statistically speaking, many transexuals benefit from this combination of female understanding with male competency, as a higher than average number of us are in the higher income bracket with technical or professional skills. Oh come on, you know when God takes with one hand he gives with other!
Cisgendered (or cis)
- the reverse of transgendered, basically someone who feels they are of the physical gender they were born in. To some it's a more fancy play on the old concept of normal, yet actually it's a little more specific and a useful word if you're going to look at gender theory. Typically it's used to refer to the thoughts and assumptions made by the majority who are unaware of the transgender phenomenon, ie "that's a very cis or cissexist point of view"
Transvestite, tranny or TV
- A transvestite is a person who chooses to outwardly express their inner feelings through their appearance. They could be male or female yet have the desire to show their feminine or masculine nature through dress. Think of it this way. You have a line numbered from 1 to 100. 1 is 100% female and 100 is 100% male. The majority of people would be a comfortable mixture of both genders in the way they think - say 90% male, 10% female. However, some people have a strong feminine or masculine side, maybe 60-40. Having this stronger leaning within they may feel unable to express themselves fully within the constraints of their day-to-day gender and so find release in spending time within the opposite gender role.
By far the majority of Transvestites are heterosexual, marry and live otherwise "normal" lives save the odd girls night out at a TV club or group or they dress at home. The majority of Transvestites do not take their need for expression into their sex lives and topics on discussion at TV groups are normally very clean, along the lines of a woman's magazine - make up, dressing nicely, where to shop for bargains etc.
Cross Dresser or CD
- Whilst most Transgendered groups could be considered as a form of cross dressing, within the TG community Cross Dressing is often seen as something more specific; it's when dressing is done for sexual pleasure. It often centers on wearing more intimate apparel such as lingerie or underwear, as well as fetish wear like PVC or leather. There can be a huge gulf in outlook between a Transvestite and a Cross Dresser since the Cross Dresser is motivated by sex, whilst the transvestite is motivated by the need for expression. Therefore Cross Dressers may not feel the need to look convincing or act in anyway like a female would.
For some cross dressing can be part of a complex about their sexual orientation - some people cannot accept themselves to be bisexual or gay and so cross dress because the thin veil of the woman's role allows them to act out fantasies that their own mental conditioning is at odds with. It's basically like saying to yourself it's OK for me to be having sex with a man because at the moment I'm a woman.
There are also cultural differences in this term. In North America, the word crossdresser can essentially be the same as transvestite; it needn't necessarily connotate for sexual purposes. However in Europe there are clear examples of this connection. For example if a celebrity or politician was found in some sex scandal where they were dressed it would be described as a "crossdressing shocker" rather than a "transvestite shocker". This is why I prefer to split the terms transvestite and crossdresser to refer to two different motivations.
Drag Queens
- A Drag Queen is the name given to a performer or entertainer who dresses as a woman. The majority of Drag Queens are gay and the woman they portray themselves as is really a caricature of feminity. It's certainly not intended to bear any more than a superficial resemblance to any real woman and many Drag Queens use their act as an opportunity to make fun of women.
I should note here that there are also many Drag Kings - women who impersonate men. Don't knock it, if only Elvis actually did look as good as them!
Sissies
- A sissy is a man who enjoys being dominated by another, normally a woman. Their Mistress may make them do a variety of things both sexual and non-sexual ranging from serving her to doing housework. Domination is a big part of being a Sissy and failure to please the Mistress may result in humiliation, forced feminisation, bondage, spanking or other forms of disciplining. For some sex may form the final part of the role play, for others their wife may enjoy forcing them to do the dishes in a skirt!
Intersexuals (Hermaphrodites)
- Different from Transexuals, Intersexed people are born with the physical sexual organs of both genders, although they may not be fully formed. For them, choosing which sex to live as can be the most important consideration as some have surgery to remove one set of organs, although their parents are often placed in the difficult decision of deciding at birth resulting in many becoming female since medically this is easier. Some will grow up and like transexuals realise they are in a body that doesn't match their internal gender and seek a sex change. Some choose to remain ambiguous whilst others very clearly define themselves as thinking from only one gender. Like Transexuality, Intersexuality is a birth defect but it's visible symptoms can cause just as much, if not more issues to contend with. It can also have a variety of causes such as Chromosomes.
Whilst considered part of the Transgendered Community, it is rarer to meet an Intersexed person since the condition is apparent from birth. Most will receive medical advice from an early age and do their best to lead otherwise normal lives. The term Hermaphrodite used to be widely used to describe them, but nowadays this term is not used since it's not really accurate. Intersexual is now used in it's place and refers solely to those born with both sexual organs in non-hermaphroditic species, i.e. humans.
Shemales
- A shemale is someone who takes hormones and may undergo feminising surgery but chooses to keep their male genitalia. Some do this because it allows them to earn money in the sex industry since once they have the chop, they loose their uniqueness. This allows them to save money for their treatment as transitioning can be very expensive with surgery alone costing thousands, not to mention the cost of hormones which transexuals must take for the rest of their lives. Similar names include Chick with a d*** and Ladyboy. Whilst Shemale is a word originating in the porn industry, Ladyboy is a translation of a Thai word as Thai people have believed in the existence of a third gender for thousands of years. Not all shemales transition like transexuals do as some prefer being both sexes or have commercial interests that require them to have a functioning male genitalia.
Androgynous
- To be androgynous is to be on the borderline between male and female. There are people who enjoy creating confusion this way (gender terrorists) or just naturally look that way. One can be androgynous in thought or appearance.
Third Gender Terms
- The Third Gender lies somewhere between male and female and has been accepted by many cultures since ancient times giving rise to many names. The Third Gender applies to pretty much all male to female transgendered groups. Terms include the Thai Katoey or Ladyboy, the Indian Hijra or Evening People, the North American Indian Winkte and Berdache or Two Spirit and the Arabic Khanith or Not Clearly Male. In the Roman times the Galli were transgendered priestesses of the Goddess Cybele who voluntarily castrated themselves. There are also similar terms from many other African, Asian and American cultures dating back thousands of years - as I said earlier, transexuality and intersexuality are naturally occurring conditions and although rare have been around as long as humanity.
Autogynephile
- this a relatively new term that deals more with sexual arousal in the sense that there are many men - often classed transvestites, transexuals or cross dressers - who find themselves aroused at the thought of themselves being female. One argument goes that this is natural in the case of transexuals as it is normal and healthy to have a sex drive and when you have a clear body image that you find attractive it is appropriate that you find it a turn on.
Another argument goes that fancying yourself as a woman is very different from being a woman and can simply constitute a fantasy of supreme appreciation for women (if the person having it is heterosexual) or of denial of one's latent homosexuality. I guess there are probably people that fall into both categories, although I suspect that there are more men who are comfortable being men yet find the thought of being female erotic than there are transexuals who have autogynephilia as part of their natural sex drive.
Afternote added May 2010
: A further point on the subject that was quite rightly raised to me by one reader is that there are lots of cisgendered people who find affirmations of their gender a turn on such as the guy who feels good when a woman makes him feel a real man or how women like to be treated like a woman by a gentleman. Therefore there is an argument that autgynephile is a word invented by cispeople to pathologise the transgender condition. At anyrate, the term is included here for discussion and debate and like all my transgender term definitions, I don't claim that they are all encompassing or complete, nor do I edorse them all. They're merely here and present to serve to inform and stimulate debate.
Always remember that whatever title you feel fits you or someone else, that's not all you are. You might be a screaming tranny but you're also a human being right? Could it be possible that that person who you dismissed yesterday as a sick cross dresser might also be the paramedic who one day saves your life tomorrow? What I'm trying to say is that people - all people - are wonderful creatures with many sides and traits. Use titles to help understand your world and tell others about it but don't make the mistake of thinking that's all you are. Don't let your gender identity rule your life - let your mind rule your life. Much as a beautiful mind will create a beautiful life, so to a mind that traps itself in words or titles can create a life that is hemmed in and restricted. Free your mind and the rest will follow...
colorful sauce:
http://www.danistroom.com/inspirations/hel...definitions.htm
Pecah Lobang - Muslim transsexual sex worker, Malaysia
“Pecah Lobang,” which means “busted,” explores what it’s like to be a Muslim transsexual sex worker in Malaysia.
Shot in the Chow Kit red light district, the documentary revolves around Natasha, a Muslim Mak Nyah, who refuses to live life as a man. Unable to secure employment because of discrimination, Natasha turns to sex work and lives in constant fear of the police and religious authorities.
Crossdressing is a crime under Syariah law for Muslims and the penalties are severe. But it wasn’t always enforced in Malaysia. How did the country become so heavy-handed on the transsexual community?
A religious scholar, a physician who conducted sex change surgeries, a sociologist, three attorneys and an outreach worker explain how it all came to be.
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“Pecah Lobang” menyiasat pengalaman seorang transeksual beragama Islam yang menyara hidupnya sebagai pekerja seks di Malaysia.
Dokumentari yang digambarkan di sekitar Chow Kit ini menceritakan kehidupan seorang Mak Nyah beragama Islam bernama Natasha. Natasha terpaksa menjadi seorang pekerja seks akibat diskriminasi yang wujud di dalam masyarakat terhadap golongan Mak Nyah. Pihak polis dan penguatkuasa agama yang sentiasa memburu pekerja-pekerja seks membuatkan Natasha sentiasa di dalam ketakutan.
Undang-undang Syariah di Malaysia melarang lelaki daripada berpakaian wanita. Akan tetapi, penguatkuasaan undang-undang itu tidak wujud suatu masa dahulu. Bagaimanakah penguatkuasaan ke atas transeksual di Malaysia menjadi ketat?
Seorang ahli ulama, seorang pakar bedah yang pernah melakukan pembedahan penukaran jantina, seorang pakar sosiologi, sekumpulan peguam dan seorang pekerja sosial berkongsi pendapat tentang keadaan undang-undang terhadap Mak Nyah di negara ini.
Write-up copied from
http://www.pohsiteng.com/pecah-lobang-busted-muslim-transsexual-sex-workers-in-malaysia/
Award won:
Justin Louis Award, Pecah Lobang (Busted) documentary
, 2008
Transsexual Yasmin Lee Interview
Transsexual pornographic film actress
Yasmin Lee
, who played the role of transsexual stripper-hooker
Kimmy in The Hangover: Part II, has caused a bit of a
stir
about whether or not her character was a positive portrayal or a symptom of American transphobia (and I certainly had a few
concerns of my own
to reconcile).
The
ongoing debate
at Queerty was eventually participated in by none other than Ms. Lee herself, and I decided to take her up on her gracious offer:
If you need further help in understanding this complicated world you can always look me up on facebook
.
How did you get involved in the Hangover: Part II, and how respectful were they of your identity?
The studio found me on IMDb as the lead for an indie horror flick,
Red Ice
, where I played the Succubus. They sent me a message asking if I would be interested in coming in to audition. [By the third round of auditions,] they were flying in girls from all over the world just to read for the part, and I got pretty nervous. I realized that this scene must be really important if they’re going to invest all that money just for the audition. I went in thinking
Okay, just be me.
When I went in and saw the director, Todd Phillips, sitting on the leather couch in his casual plaid shirt, shorts and sandals, I was thinking
Wow, he’s really hot.
He also had his golden retriever in the room which made me feel like I was in a Ralph Lauren ad. After various readings from comic pacing to different accents, he and the casting director assured me I did an amazing job.
Todd Phillips asked me if I acted full time, what I did for a living. Without hesitation, I said “I’m one of the top transsexual porn stars in the entire universe, specializing in spanking naughty boys.”
I don’t know what was going through my head.
He kinda said wow and thanked me right away for telling the truth, and that they weren’t expecting that. The whole process was very much a fish out of water experience for me, but they made me feel very comfortable. Though after revealing what I do for a living I thought that there’s no way I would get the part. As I was walking out, I jokingly said “This reading would have been a lot easier if the director wasn’t hot, it’s such a distraction. I don’t appreciate it,” and smiled. Weeks later, the director himself called me and said that I got the part, but to act surprised when casting called to tell me officially. We had a very intimate talk about the TS community and our struggles. I could tell he sincerely cares.
Millions are going to see your performance. Do you feel the character Kimmy was a fair portrayal of transsexuals? And as a follow-up, you’ve mentioned in the past that 9 out of 10 transwomen are in the sex industry. Could you clarify that? I think there are many people in Western nations who find that hard to understand.
In my personal opinion, and by the way I was born in Thailand, I think that Kimmy is a very fair portrayal of a transsexual woman. Does she represent all transgender people of the world? No. Anyone that has gone to Thailand would agree that among the 300,000 transsexuals living in Bangkok, there are many who are working in the mainstream and are more accepted there than anywhere else in the world.
But the majority of Thai transsexuals are sex workers.
There are clubs after clubs of Go-Go dancing transgender women. Actually, it’s a very big part of Thailand’s economy, and these girls are loved, accepted and acknowledged by the people, the government, and the media.
What do you have to say to people who accuse you of being a man or a transvestite because you have a penis?
Anyone who accuses me of being a man or transvestite because of my genitals do so out of hatefulness, or in most cases pure ignorance. They’re simply not educated about our community. We are not the norm and people don’t run into TS women on a regular basis. People fear stuff that they don’t relate to or understand, but I find that most people will at least listen. This is the opportunity for you to engage and change someone’s opinion. Maybe they will learn and maybe they won’t just yet, but they never will if the opportunity doesn’t present itself.
I know sometimes we feel rage and anger when we feel we are misrepresented or mistreated, but lashing back is never a good way to represent ourselves.
I, too, have made this mistake in the past.
We really have to take the opportunity to be educators.
Is there anything else you’d like to add?
In final thoughts, I had an amazing time hanging with all the boys and the crew. Everyone from the lighting guy to my people for hair, make-up, and wardrobe assistance, to the studio big fish treated me with love and respect. As a matter of fact, though I’m a very proud transsexual woman I didn’t feel like I was one on-set. I was there simply as an actress and they treated me as such. Not for one second did my gender become an issue. Can’t say the same for Crystal the monkey. She had to play the part as a male monkey but did so fiercely.
I feel that this movie has done a great deal for the GLBT community in terms of exposure.
The role of Kimmy was never meant to be a role model, or someone that represents the community as a whole. For me it was a means of income as well as an opportunity to shed light on who I am, and more importantly our community and our struggle for equality.
With all the hype and talk about my controversial scene, it will lead to open discussion and then even more opportunities to educate
Source:
http://translabyrinth.com/2011/06/01/interview-with-transsexual-actress-yasmin-lee-hangover-2/
Bukak Api (2000)
http://www.veoh.com/watch/
v16061055XKhfBBpP?h1=BUKAK+API+
%282000%29
The only realistic movie on transsexuals sex worker in Malaysia. VCD are available from PT Foundation (
http://www.ptfmalaysia.org
).
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